If you don't put any new stuff on your agenda, then there won't be any new stuff on your agenda. It's as simple as that. No one is going to put anything on it for you. Not your boss. Not your partner. Not your friends. Not the government. No one. They're all busy taking care of their own stuff. And in case they do add something new to your agenda, it's probably nothing that you'd really want to have on it. So if you want to learn/see/experience something new, you need to put it on there yourself...