Avoiding uncertainty and instability in favor of stability and security usually comes at a steep price.
The price of giving up on possible future opportunities.
Because no opportunity is ever certain or stable.
As a matter of fact, most opportunities are the exact opposite.
That's why most opportunities will never find you when all that matters to you is stability and security.
Like it or not but to avoid uncertainty and instability you'd have to give up quite quite a bit to get it.
And even more so to keep it...