You can basically ask every question in two ways.
You can either ask yourself "will this work for me?" or you can ask yourself "how can I make this work for me?"
They both sound very similar.
But they're the complete opposite.
The first one lets you off the hook.
You don't have to think.
Or put in the work.
You'll just wait for things to happen.
You'll wait for people to convince you that it'll work for you.
So nothing is ever going to happen.
Nothing is ever going to change.
On the other hand, the second question puts the whole weight on you.
You've gotta think.
And you've gotta put in the work.
And you'll be the one who has to make things happen.
Choose your question...
[Related: I stopped giving a shit a long time ago]