Now I could write down a super long list of things you could do to stop giving a shit.
Things you could do to stop giving a shit about what people think about you.
What your boss thinks about you.
What your co-workers think about you.
What society thinks about you.
What that girl at that bar thinks about you.
But I won't.
I won't write down a big ass list of things you could do.
Because others are a lot better than me at this kind of stuff.
And I believe that at the end of the day caring too much about others and being worried about everything boils down to the simple fact that we think we have too much to lose...
And the more you think you have to lose or the harder you had to fight to get to where you are right now, the more you'll care and worry about all sorts of things you actually shouldn't care about at all.
Because you're afraid of making mistakes.
Of losing what you already have.
Of losing what you've worked for so hard.
Just think about it...
Kids don't give a shit about anything.
Because they don't have anything to lose.
Whatever they do, they can only win.
Zero fucks mentality right there.
But when we grow up, when we achieve one thing after another we're constantly afraid of losing what we have.
We're afraid of losing our jobs we worked so hard for.
And on and on and on.
We're constantly afraid of losing stuff we worked so hard for to get.
We want to arrive.
We don't want to start all over again.
We just want to arrive and be safe.
We fought hard to get all of this stuff.
So we're afraid of losing any of it.
Even the slightest possibility of loss scares the shit out of us.
So we constantly worry about this and that.
We give too much shit about things we shouldn't actually care about at all.
So how can you stop giving a shit?
I don't know.
Because I don't know you.
And we're all different.
But here's what helps me put things into perspective...
I know I'm going to die.
Sooner or later.
So at the end of the day whatever I do, I can only win.
Whatever I try, I can only win.
Because I only have this one life to try...